from the book How to Have a Baby: Overcoming
Infertility
by Dr. Aniruddha Malpani, MD and Dr. Anjali Malpani, MD.
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Table of Contents
What
are the chances of a normal fertile couple conceiving
in one month ?
What
is primary infertility ? What is secondary infertility
What
are the factors which affect the chances of a normal
couple getting pregnant in one month ?
What
are the factors which affect the chances of an infertile
couple getting pregnant in one month ?
When
should you start worrying and seek medical advice?
"So, when are you planning to have a
baby?" This is the commonest question most newly married
couples in India are asked - sometimes even as soon
as they have returned from the honeymoon! There is a
lot of pressure on couples to have a baby, especially
in traditional families, where the wife's role is still
seen to be one of perpetuating the family name by producing
heirs.
Many couples still naively expect they
will get pregnant the very first month they try (the
result of watching too many Hindi films, perhaps!) -
and are concerned when a pregnancy does not occur. All
of us go through a brief interlude of doubt and concern
when we do not achieve pregnancy the very first month
we try - and we start wondering about our fertility.
What
are the chances of a normal fertile couple conceiving
in one month ?
Before worrying, remember that in a
single menstrual cycle, the chance of a perfectly normal
couple achieving a successful pregnancy is only about
25%, even if they have sex every single day. This is
called their fecundity which describes their fertility
potential. Humans are not very efficient at producing
babies!
There are many reasons for this, including
the fact that some eggs don't fertilize and that some
of the fertilized eggs ( embryos) don't grow well in
the early developmental stage because of a random genetic
error.
Getting pregnant is a game of odds -
it's a bit like playing Russian Roulette and it's impossible
to predict when an individual couple will get pregnant!
However, over a period of a year, the chance of a successful
pregnancy is between 80 and 90%, so that 7 out of 8
couples will be pregnant within a year. These are the
normal "fertile" couples - and the rest are "labeled"
infertile - the medical text book definition of infertility
being the inability to conceive even after trying for
a year.
What
is primary infertility ? What is secondary infertility
?
Couples who have never had a child,
are said to have "primary infertility", while those
who have become pregnant at least once but are unable
to conceive again, are said to have "secondary infertility."
The approach to both types of infertility is very similar.
However, patients with secondary infertility have a
better prognosis, because they have proven their fertility
in the past.
What
are the factors which affect the chances of a normal
couple getting pregnant in one month ?
The chances of pregnancy for a couple
in a given month will depend upon many things, and the
most important of these are:
- The age of the woman. At the biologic
clock ticks on, the number of eggs and their quality
starts decreasing
- Frequency of intercourse. While there
is no "normal" frequency for sex, the "optimal" frequency
of intercourse if you are trying to get pregnant is
about 3 times a week in the fertile period. Simply
stated, the more sex the better! Couples who have
intercourse less frequently, have a diminished chance
of conceiving.
- "Trying time" - that is, how long
the couple have been trying to get pregnant. This
is an important concept. The longer a couple has been
trying to conceive without success, the lesser their
chances of getting pregnant without medical help.
- The presence of fertility problems.
What
are the factors which affect the chances of an infertile
couple getting pregnant in one month ?
What happens when a couple has a fertility
problem? The chances of their getting pregnant depends
upon a number of variables multiplied together.
Consider a couple where both the husband
and wife have a condition that impairs their fertility.
For example, the husband's fertility, based on a reduced
sperm count is 50 percent of normal values. His wife
ovulates only in 50 percent of cycles; and one of her
fallopian tubes is blocked. With three relative infertility
factors, their chance of conception is 0.5 (sperm count)
X 0.5 (ovulation factor) X 0.5 (tubal factor) = 0.125,
or 12.5 percent of normal.
Since the chance of conception in normal
fertile couples is only 25% in any one cycle, the probability
of pregnancy in any given month for this couple without
treatment is only 3 percent (0.125 X 25 = 0.03125)!
Even if they kept on trying for 5 years, their chance
of conceiving on their own would be 60% only.
Thus, infertility problems multiply
together and magnify the odds against a couple achieving
a pregnancy. This is why it is important to correct
or improve each partner's contributing infertility factors
as much as possible in order to maximize the chances
of conception.
If infertile couples had 300 years in
which to breed, most wives would get pregnant without
any treatment at all! Of course, time is at a premium,
so the odds need to be improved - and this is where
medical treatment comes in.
If you have been having sexual intercourse
two or three times a week at about the time of ovulation,
without any form of birth control for a year or more
and are not pregnant, you meet the definition of being
infertile. Pregnancy may still occur spontaneously,
but from a statistical point of view, the chances are
decreasing and you may now want to start thinking about
seeking medical help. There is no "right" time to do
so - and if it is causing you anxiety and worry, then
you should consult a doctor. Even though you may be
embarrassed and feel that you are the only ones in the
world with the problem, you are not alone. Many couples
experience infertility and many can be helped.
Unfortunately, while infertility is
always an important problem, it is usually never an
urgent one. This often means that couples keep on putting
off going to the doctor. "We'll take care of it next
month". Tragically, many find that time flies, and before
they realize it, their chances of getting pregnant have
started to decline, even before they have had a chance
to take treatment properly. Set your priorities,
so that you have peace of mind that you tried your best.
After all, if you don't take care of your own infertility
problem, who will ? Kicking yourself when you are 50
years old for failing to take treatment when you
were younger will not help. Remember that everything
in life comes back, except for time!
There are certain conditions that warrant
seeing a doctor sooner:
- Periods at three-week (or less) intervals
- No period for longer than three months
- Irregular periods
- A history of pelvic infection
- Two or more miscarriages
- Women over the age of 35 - time is
now at a premium !
- Men who have had prostate infections
- Men whose testes are not felt
in the scrotum
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