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If you have been trying to get pregnant for some time, and have finally decided to choose a surrogate to bring your child into this world, the surrogate is a very important part of your parenthood journey. Therefore, it is only natural that you may have some very strong feelings about this person who will carry your child and give birth to it.

To Meet or Not to Meet ?

For most couples seeking IVF and surrogacy treatments, meeting a surrogate is a very personal choice. A lot of couples choose to stay in close contact with the surrogate, to ensure a higher involvement in the pregnancy.

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A Personal Choice

Ultimately, it is the couples' choice – whether they want to meet the surrogate or not, and how involved they want to be with her. On their part, they are offering a generous compensation to the surrogate for her services, and may want to completely do away with having any contact with her. However, since this is an emotional matter, it is important to take time and make this decision after some deliberation.

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Meeting with a surrogate is a personal choice. How much you want to be involved with the surrogate, and how many times you want to meet her, are some of the things you have to consider.

Authored by : Dr Aniruddha Malpani, MD and reviewed by Dr Anjali Malpani.

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