One of the problems of being infertile is that patients
start thinking of themselves as failures, since they can't even do such a
simple thing like making a baby in their bedroom - something which millions of
women do routinely all the time.
This can be very hard to come to terms with, especially
for a lot of young, successful, professional career women , who are so used to
getting everything they want in life.
They are academically smart, accomplished , do well in
exams, get the job which they want, and the husband they want.
When they find that they can't get a baby, their
self-esteem takes a big hit, and they start wondering whether they're good for
anything else at all.
This can be extremely difficult because in one sense this is the first time in their life they're coming
to terms with their own biological frailty - their own mortality in one sense.
The fact that not everything is in their control can be
very unsettling. Some become bitter and angry, while others acquire a certain
degree of humility . They are able to cope better , because they understand
that they should be grateful for what they have , and learn to make the most of
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