Choosing the Right IVF Doctor—How to Find One Who Listens and Respects You

Patient: Dr. Malpani, how do I know if I’m choosing the right IVF doctor?

Dr. Malpani: Look for a doctor who respects your views, listens to your concerns, and treats you as an equal partner in the process.

Patient: But aren’t doctors supposed to make all the decisions?

Dr. Malpani: Not at all. IVF is an elective treatment with multiple paths. Your doctor should guide you, not dictate. It’s your family, your future.

Patient: Why do many patients feel hesitant to question their doctors?

Dr. Malpani: In India, questioning doctors is often seen as disrespectful. But medicine is a service. You deserve to ask questions and expect clear answers.

Patient: What if the doctor disagrees with the decisions I make?

Dr. Malpani: That’s okay. A good doctor respects your right to choose, even if they advise otherwise. It’s about supporting you, not overriding your preferences.

Patient: I’ve noticed some doctors seem rushed. Why is that?

Dr. Malpani: Many IVF clinics, especially large corporate chains, focus on volume—seeing as many patients as possible in a short time. This limits personal attention.

Patient: How can I ensure I get the doctor’s full attention?

Dr. Malpani: Organise your medical records, be clear about your goals, and choose clinics where doctors personally handle cases, not just assistants.

Patient: What qualities should I look for in an IVF doctor?

Dr. Malpani: Compassion, patience, and a willingness to explain. You want someone who educates, empowers, and values your input throughout the journey.

Patient: What if I feel my current doctor isn’t the right fit?

Dr. Malpani: Don’t hesitate to seek a second opinion. It’s your right to explore other options if you feel unheard or rushed.

Patient: How can I get a second opinion quickly?

Dr. Malpani: Visit www.drmalpani.com/free-second-opinion or book a video consultation at bit.ly/consult-drmalpani.